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About Love Openly

“When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.
When I found I could not change the world, I tried to change my nation.
When I found I could not change the nation, I tried to change my town.
When I found I could not change the town, I tried to change my family.
Now, as an old man, I realize the only thing I can change is myself.
And suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family.
My family and I could have made an impact on our town.
Their impact could have changed the nation.
and I could indeed have changed the world.

~ Rabbi Yisrael Salanter

Have you ever wanted the admiration and respect of your friends, your co-workers and your romantic partner?

Have you ever wished that you had confidence, was self assured about who you are and your purpose in life?

Have you ever been confused about what love is, and how to bring love into your life? How to truly love yourself?

The way to seek the answer to all these questions is with a single word :


Relationships are one of the most important things you can develop to improve the quality of your life.

Relationships are the essence of how we see ourselves, who we think we are, and how we want to live.

Relationships are the most important vehicle to bring success, happiness and satisfaction into our lives, whether it be romantic, in our career or with friends and family.

You can’t live without a relationship. Even alone you have a relationship with yourself at all times.

The Message

Amazing relationships can be engineered and created through your conscious effort. Anybody can create the dream relationships that they truly want. Developing a loving relationship and strong bond with another is a learnable skill.

The Mission

The Love Openly mission is to support and guide as many people as possible towards the creation and experience of healthy, contented and loving relationships.

The Work

Even though everyone agrees that relationships play an important role in their lives, many people don’t often dedicate or prioritize their time on developing their relationships. And so, most follow the relationship models of their parents, coworkers and friends, not knowing that they also did the same. This resulting lack of awareness about what good relationships can provide or might look like, can deeply affect our lives.

To fill this awareness gap, there should be some good education about what successful relationships look like and how to practice them. I believe that this is an area where I can make a contribution. I aim to provide a structured process and method that can guide people toward building better relationships. Letting go of abuse, loneliness or frustration and simultaneously cultivating love, gratitude and enthusiasm.

  • I want to show people that even though there are challenges and obstacles, it’s all part of the process of getting what you want.
  • I want to provide a systematic method that is structured and easily accessible so that anyone wanting to create the relationship that they want can do so.
  • Provide an actionable path to actually create a stronger more powerful version of love in their life. Not something that is unchangeable, but that develops as they develop individually.

Why Do You Focus On Dating & Romantic Relationships?

Simply, I feel that helping people first in their romantic relationship life is the best way to connect and create a solid working relationship; maximizing the reach of our learning and education programmes through friendship and mutual understanding.

Almost everyone on the planet could get help with this area in their life on some level and at some time, and I feel that I can add alternative perspectives to the existing pool of information that is out there.

I also acknowledge that romantic relationships are often the first stage in a person’s life when they step out into the unknown and begin to practically realise what kind of life they actually want.

My Story

Hi, I’m Tim.

I had a question:
If you could create a dream relationship, what would it look like?

In looking for an answer to this question I found often misleading advice, that long term relationships aren’t important anymore, or worse, that playing power games and covert manipulation is the only way to connect with people in this world.

As a relationship coach, I have met a great number of people who were set back with poor advice and struggled for many years living without ability to enter into a relationship, or found their relationships continuously lack meaning in their lives. Some even believed that love does not exist.

I felt that I could contribute in this field and do a better job than society has. I felt that I could create better teachings – to strive for an open education in relationships which is comprehensive enough to help people no matter what different beliefs, cultures, or patterns of behaviors they might have.

So I did my own research. From over 20 years of my own personal experience in the dating world and working with people from many different countries, studying and testing different approaches to relationships, I discovered a simple pattern to the way people connect with and express love towards each other.

The way that people express love and relate to each other is not random, but rather it’s predictable, and if you can understand this in depth, then it IS possible to create dream relationships.

Through the work in Love Openly, I have completely transformed my life and the way I help other people to build their relationships. My goal is to also help people through these methods to create their dream relationships without ever compromising on their true desires and love for themselves and others.

This is an ongoing process. I keep working on being better every day. Better as a coach, and better in my personal life. I fully embody everything that I express though Love Openly.

The System

Here is the secret. People love each other and express love in ways that are predictable. And if you can understand these ways, or mindsets as I like to call them. You can master dating and relationships.

These ‘mindsets’ are the keys to understanding the desires and motivations of others you want to build loving relationships with. But they are also the keys to looking deep inside ourselves and seeing what is holding us back from having what we want in our lives.

These are the 5 fundamental love mindsets that I found that people tend to operate from:

The Love Openly system is based on these mindsets, and in order to master dating and relationships, everybody needs to go through 3 major stages.

Here is what they look like:

Stage 1. You find an AMAZING person to start a relationship with. (You’re confident and clear about what you want).

Stage 2. You develop a relationship with your partner until you become an UNSTOPPABLE team together. (You feel loved and empowered).

Stage 3. You take everything you’ve learnt and developed from the relationship to cultivate a NEW LEVEL of love for yourself and live a life on your terms. (You feel self-actualized).

Grow With Love Openly

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