About Love Openly
“When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.
When I found I could not change the world, I tried to change my nation.
When I found I could not change the nation, I tried to change my town.
When I found I could not change the town, I tried to change my family.
Now, as an old man, I realize the only thing I can change is myself.
And suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family.
My family and I could have made an impact on our town.
Their impact could have changed the nation.
and I could indeed have changed the world.
~ Rabbi Yisrael Salanter
Have you ever wanted the admiration and respect of your friends, your co-workers and your romantic partner?
Have you ever wished that you had confidence, was self assured about who you are and your purpose in life?
Have you ever been confused about what love is, and how to bring love into your life? How to truly love yourself?
The way to seek the answer to all these questions is with a single word :
Relationships are one of the most important things you can develop to improve the quality of your life.
Relationships are the essence of how we see ourselves, who we think we are, and how we want to live.
Relationships are the most important vehicle to bring success, happiness and satisfaction into our lives, whether it be romantic, in our career or with friends and family.
You can’t live without a relationship. Even alone you have a relationship with yourself at all times.
Amazing relationships can be engineered and created through your conscious effort in the same way that we often do in many other areas of our lives. Anybody can create the dream relationships that they truly want. Developing a loving relationship and strong bond with another is a learnable skill.
Our mission is to support and guide as many people as possible to create and experience healthy, contented and loving relationships in their lives.
Even though everyone agrees that relationships play an important role in their lives, many people don’t often dedicate or prioritize their time on developing their relationships. And so, most follow the relationship models of their parents, coworkers and friends, not knowing that they also did the same. This resulting lack of awareness about what good relationships can provide or might look like, can deeply affect our lives.
To fill this awareness gap, there should be some good education about how to do relationships well. We believe that this is an area where we can make a contribution. We aim to provide a structured process and method that can guide people toward building better relationships. Letting go of abuse, loneliness or frustration and cultivating love, gratitude and enthusiasm.
- We want to show people that even though there are challenges and obstacles, it’s all part of the process of getting what you want.
- We want to provide a systematic method that is structured and easily accessible so that anyone wanting to create the relationship that they want can do so.
- Provide an actionable path to actually create a stronger more powerful version of love in their life. Not something that is unchangeable, but that develops as they develop individually.
Why Do You Focus On Dating & Romantic Relationships?
Simply, we feel that helping people first in their romantic relationship life is the best way to connect and create a solid working relationship; maximizing the reach of our learning and education programmes through friendship and mutual understanding.
Almost everyone on the planet could get help with this area in their life on some level and at some time, and we feel that we can add alternative perspectives to the existing pool of information that is out there.
We also acknowledge that romantic relationships are often the first stage in a person’s life when they step out into the unknown and begin to practically realise what kind of life they actually want.
What Is The Guild?
The Love Openly Guild is an all-inclusive training program for our members to level up their relationship lives.
We aim to provide you the exact step-by-step process and method that you can repeat for the rest of your life to build genuinely purposeful and loving relationships with both yourself and others.
In the Guild, you get direct access to Tim & Lidia through a full year of coaching every week.
You also get..
Membership: One full year of membership to the Love Openly Guild with an amazing collection of benefits and bonuses
Courses: Members-only video training courses and step-by-step tutorials on dating, relationship and self development (with audio formats available too).
– Our courses include actual action steps of how to master online dating and offline approach in real-life.
– Any major obstacles stopping you from making significant improvements in your dating and relationships are all covered.
Coaching: Live video coaching calls 3-4 times per month (with recordings posted after the calls)
Direct access to Tim & Lidia to help you to set up goals, clarify obstacles and identify practical action steps to solve problems. You’ll never get stuck until you achieve your goals.
Plus, you’re always guaranteed to have both men & women’s perspectives throughout your entire journey for your success.
Forums: Private discussion group to connect with Tim, Lidia and other LO members for support, accountability, and friendship. You’ll never be alone, and there are other people alongside with you on the same journey, supporting you, inspiring you with their progress and sharing resources, and more.
Challenges: Opportunities to participate in challenges such as 30-day trials to build new habits, meet new people, and to start/improve your relationships. All challenges are purposefully chosen to help you to achieve your goals faster. And they’re also a lot of fun!
Newsletter: Regular members-only newsletter to share updates of forum activities, challenges, highlights of video courses and reminder of upcoming calls. You can effortlessly stay in the loop and connect with us to be on track toward succeeding at your dating and relationships.
Hi, we are Tim and Lidia.
Love Openly started one summer afternoon in the streets of Manchester UK, when Tim bumped into Lidia and discovered a shared passion in life together.
Both coming from very different backgrounds, we had one thing in common – helping other people to build better relationships with themselves and others.
We had a question:
If you could create a dream relationship, what would it look like?
In looking for an answer to this question we found often misleading advice, that long term relationships aren’t important anymore, or worse, that playing power games and covert manipulation is the only way to connect with people in this world.
As relationship coaches, we have met a great number of people who were set back with poor advice and struggled for many years with having any kind of meaningful relationship in their lives. Some even believed that love does not exist.
We felt that we could contribute in this field and do a better job than society has. We felt that we could create better teachings – to strive for an open education in relationships which is comprehensive enough to help people no matter what different beliefs, cultures, or patterns of behaviors they might have.
So we did our own research. From a collective 30 years of our own personal experience in the dating world and working with people from many different countries, studying and testing different approaches to relationships.
We discovered a simple pattern to the way people connect with and express love towards each other.The way that people express love and relate to each other is not random, but rather predictable, and if you can understand this in depth, then it IS possible to create dream relationships.
Love Openly has completely transformed our lives and the way we help other people to build their relationships. Our goal is to help people through our methods to create their dream relationships without ever compromising their true desire and love for themselves and others.
This is an ongoing process. We keep working on being better every day through Love Openly because we believe it’s the way we can have the largest positive impact in the world. By having a structured approach to relationships and with practical advice, people can truly enjoy the most satisfying relationships that they deserve.
Here is the secret. People love each other and express love in ways that are predictable. And if you can understand these ways, or mindsets as we like to call them. You can master dating and relationships.
These ‘mindsets’ are the keys to understanding the desires and motivations of others you want to build loving relationships with. But they are also the keys to looking deep inside ourselves and seeing what is holding us back from having what we want in our lives.
These are the 5 fundamental love mindsets that we found that people tend to operate from:
We built our system based on these mindsets, and in order to master dating and relationships, anybody needs to go through 3 major stages.
Here is what they look like:
Stage 1. You find an AMAZING person to start a relationship with. (You’re confident and clear about what you want).
Stage 2. You develop a relationship with your partner until you become an UNSTOPPABLE team together. (You feel loved and empowered).
Stage 3. You take everything you’ve learnt and developed from the relationship to cultivate a NEW LEVEL of love for yourself and live a life on your terms. (You feel self-actualized).
Grow With Us
Start creating your relationship with us right now by joining The Guild