Where To Meet Women – Things You Need To Know

The area of life that men typically want to focus their efforts on the most, is with love and relationships.

Finding good places to meet women can be difficult, so I am providing a short guide to make this easier for you.

Lets start with few facts:

1. Women are everywhere.

You only have to walk out the door to see that there are women all around. Alot of men fall into the trap of saying that there are no women around without even looking. This attitude is about as defeatist as you can get and will do you no good.

2. Not all women are right for you – but be open minded.

All men hold an ideal picture in their minds of who that special someone is. Do you know in your minds eye what your looking for? Make a list to be sure, you will be saving yourself hours of time and headaches in the long run – unless of course your ideal women doesn’t live in the local area. It’s not much use rejecting 99% of the local population because they aren’t some Egyptian queen.. Make your requirements realistic!

3. Meeting the right woman for you takes effort.

This is no joke. If you want to find the woman that is closest to your ideal, then you have to meet a lot of women. It depends on what you are looking for, and how willing you are too look for it, though expect to be talking to hundreds of women before you find her. Don’t set the bar too low because it will make you unhappy, but don’t set it too high either unless you like solitude.

Where To Meet Women

1. Online

Meeting women online is an increasingly viable way to meet women. While there are pitfalls to this avenue namely not being able to see them in person before you invest your time, there are plenty of women to choose from. Men who lack confidence, tend to opt for this method which is fine.

2. Bars And Clubs

In terms of return on investment, Bars and clubs are not really the best way to meet women. Places that put too much emphasis on fun, excitement and cheap thrills while seem appealing actually work against you. Therefore, I only recommend going to these places to meet women if these are the kind of places you already spend your time.

3. Supermarkets

Supermarkets are one of the best places to meet women. On any particular day around lunch and just after office hours, you will see a high volume of women to talk to. Supermarkets are a risk-free and overall safe place for women to be in, so they are much more likely to be open to conversation with you.

4. In The Street

Probably the best place in terms of return on your time and effort. Meeting women in this environment can require a high level of confidence, but you stand to meet the best woman for you in the street believe it or not. Many women dream of meeting a man this way, and so as long as she is not busy, you have a good opportunity to talk and you will literally make her day. Another great aspect to being out and about is choice – be quick though, as they won’t stand around waiting for you!

5. Public Transport

Many men think having a car is a status symbol. While that may be true for some, use of a car removes the chance to meet the many women that travel by public transport every day. If you are a commuter, then this is one of the best options for you.

If the above places seem to obvious to you, then you are over-thinking. As stated above, women are literally everywhere.

Now that you know the great places to meet women, you can focus on other aspects such as your approach and what to say.

Happy hunting!

Tim LO

Tim is a love coach and writer for Love Openly.

He has qualifications in NLP, hypnotherapy and stress management. HPD, DipHyp, DipNLP, CertSM